What is vegan shame?
I recently read about a new website, called Vegan Shame, which has been created to publicly castigate vegans who have gone away from this style of eating. I'm stunned at the militant attitude that many people take toward their food and wonder how we've come to a point that someone's nutritional plan has become another form of tribalism; promoting a dogmatic adherence to diet.
A website geared toward creating an attitude of shame around food is, in my opinion, harmful. You should not feel bad about what you eat. We all need to learn to eat in a way that fits our bio-individual requirements and promotes health for our bio-individual bodies. The most important thing to remember is that there is no one-size-fits-all nutritional plan. It's just not possible to have one nutritional plan that provides perfect nutrition for every single person on the face of the planet.
Eat for your health
There are many different nutritional plans that work for a vast number of people. There are basic nutritional needs that we all have. But we cannot all eat the same thing all the time. Sadly, because they need to sell their book, program, supplements, or meal-plans, many diets out there promote themselves as “the only plan you need.” Many are good, some are better than others, but none that I have seen thus far are perfect for everyone.
I frequently have to remind people of this. One example I use is the Atkins Diet. Although not so popular anymore, at one point it was all the rage. Some people were delighted. “Look at me! I'm eating bacon cheeseburgers and I lost 25 pounds!” While their next-door neighbor is wondering why it's not working for them because they're following the exact same diet and yet they only lost 4 pounds. That is bio-individuality at work.
What does your body really need?
The truth of the matter is that in addition to bio-individual health, your nutritional needs vary throughout your lifetime due to basic biological changes. Let's be realistic, if your nutrition needs never changed you'd still be drinking breast milk. As you age you tend to produce less digestive enzymes. Or certain health issues require you to change your diet to avoid or add foods that will be more supportive of your health. Again, this leads to no one diet being the penultimate choice for every person throughout their lifespan. Unfortunately, society persists in promoting the myth that one size should fit all when it comes to diet. And it makes no allowances for variables that can impact health.
Food cultures
Food choices are complicated by a number of factors. Firstly there are cultural food preferences; people in different countries learn to prefer different foods or food combinations. Then there are the -isms of the food world, omnivorous eaters, vegetarians, vegans, macrobiotic eaters, and more. This is compounded by the immense variety of “diets”, South Beach, Zone, Atkins, and a huge number more. Then there are those who have food sensitivities and truly must avoid certain foods. This creates a rich and diverse mix of food cultures.
This mix is one that we should welcome. Of more importance than creating a hardcore, militant attitude toward food, I encourage you to learn to eat well for your body. To be in tune with your body and choose what is nourishing and supportive for you.
We should all support ourselves, in health, by loving ourselves, loving our bodies, and making positive choices and associations with food. And let's not shame or disparage those who eat differently than we do.
It is my hope, one day people will recognize that each of us on this earth
have unique gifts, desires, tastes and more. We must get comfortable in our own skin first and not try to entertain ourselves by disparaging others who are not ‘like’ us.
Imagine if everything on TV was the same channel. If every single book had the same story. B-O-R-I-N-G! We must celebrate our unique lifestyles!
This is a great article. I don’t like the “poor you” looks in a restaurant that I see people give to others who order “comfort food” or “dessert” or even a meat dish. It really doesn’t even matter what is healthy, it’s a matter of what you decide to eat being no one else’s business unless that person is hired by you as their nutritionist. Thanks for sharing your perspective.
Vegan Shame has to be one of the most ridiculous things I’ve heard all day. I am really amazed at all of the shaming that comes with diet. As a mother of 3 children with multiple food allergies, I have experienced first-hand how ignorant people can be when it comes to judging others’ food choices.
I agree with you 100%! I think it’s awful when people attack others for what they eat. Freedom of choice! Do I believe a fast food diet is healthy? No, but I wouldn’t create a website attacking people for eating it. With all of the separation in the world, can we please leave food out of it? Yours truly, Gluten free, caffeine free, sugar free, alcohol free…
Thank you for weighing in in a sensible way on this topic – as you say “People should not feel shame when they eat. Each of us would do well to learn to eat in a way that fits our needs and promotes health for our bio-individual bodies.” I’ll eat to that!